Tuesday, June 16, 2020

Neutrality is Invalidation



"In the Gottman research on couples, (the Sound Relationship House model) we’ve learned that sustainability in a relationship depends upon the stabilizing walls of trust and commitment.  Betrayals, like invalidation, will weaken these stabilizing forces, and sometimes stressors will reveal that trust and commitment were undefined or even absent from the beginning".....

https://www.gottman.com/blog/neutrality-is-invalidation/