How to Protect Your Marriage from an Emotional Affair

http://www.lifeway.com/Article/Parenting-Teens-marriage-Affairs-of-the-Heart-Emotional-Affairs-are-Dangerous

Does your marriage have these?

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/davewillis/5-things-your-marriage-needs-every-day/

4 Work Place Habits that are Harming Your Marriage

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/ashleywillis/4-common-work-place-habits-that-are-harming-your-marriag/

More date night questions

We're assuming you're having a date night.  If you're not, make it a priority. Date nights don't have to be super expensive or lavish experiences.  They simply need to be a time where you and your spouse have some time together doing something you both enjoy that allows for conversation.  The push back: "we don't have time", "we don't have money", "we don't have childcare", etc...The reality is if it's important, you'll figure it out.  If your marriage is not strong then everything else suffers.
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/davewillis/30-creative-date-night-questions/

Keep it from turning toxic

Don't let it go there...
http://www.symbisassessment.com/blog/how-to-keep-conflict-from-turning-toxic/

Books on Marriage

--Boundaries in Marriage by Henry Cloud, John Townsend

--The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts by Gary D Chapman

--The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman Ph.D., Nan Silver

--Your Time-Starved Marriage: How to Stay Connected at the Speed of Life by Les Parrott , Leslie Parrott

--The Love Dare by Alex Kendrick, Stephen Kendrick

--How To Argue So Your Spouse Will Listen: 6 Principles for Turning Arguments into Conversations by Sharon May

--Praying Through the Deeper Issues of Marriage: Protecting Your Relationship So It Will Last a Lifetime by Stormie Omartian

--Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires, The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

--The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God by Timothy Keller, Kathy Keller

--When Sinners Say "I Do": Discovering the Power of the Gospel for Marriage by Dave Harvey


--This Momentary Marriage: A Parable of Permanence by John Piper, Noël Piper

--What Did You Expect? (Redesign): Redeeming the Realities of Marriage by Paul David Tripp

Love That Lasts: When Marriage Meets Grace by Gary and Betsy Ricucci

Husbands

Be a hero!  http://www.allprodad.com/10-ways-to-be-your-wifes-hero/?utm_content=bufferd4f73&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_campaign=buffer

...because that is what's in there

A great sermon for couples to watch and discuss...

http://northpoint.org/messages/staying-in-love/feelin-it/

10 Secrets You Should Know About Marriage

These may not be "secrets" but they are definitely good reminders... http://www.relevantmagazine.com/life/relationships/10-secrets-you-should-know-about-marriage

Great Discussion for Date Night

Use this discussion starter on your next "date night" (From Willow Creek Community Church)