Each failure chipped away at my confidence and fed the seeds of self-doubt. Eventually, even a simple 'How’s the job hunt going?' from my wife felt like scathing criticism.I knew she was trying to be supportive, but after a long day of failures, it felt like she was screaming, 'You’re letting us all down! You need to do more!'".....
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