"Phil loves his wife, and he has the best of intentions. But, like many men, he needs to understand a bit better what women most need from their husbands, during the emotionally difficult adjustment to an empty nest and in every season of life".....
https://shaunti.com/2019/10/does-your-wife-think-your-marriage-has-lost-its-spark-heres-how-to-respond/
