(repeat post, but a good reminder) 7 Signs You’re Showing Contempt Toward Your Spouse
"Contempt may seem like such a strong word that you dismiss the thought of it being a problem in your marriage. But take a moment to ask yourself whether you have ever shown disrespect or disdain to or for your spouse or have looked down on each other or been scornful for some reason".....http://www.markmerrill.com/7-signs-youre-showing-contempt-toward-your-spouse/