"Although in the USA, we honor our national independence every July 4, we are exhilarated by individual freedom all year long. Which is great—until it comes to marriage. Suddenly, we’re in a covenant in which two individuals must become one. We are no longer just 'you' and 'me' but 'we.'”.....
https://shaunti.com/2022/03/going-from-you-and-me-to-we/