"So part of me occasionally turns Grinchy during the holidays. Where previously I bounded through gift lists and décor and gifts for teachers, now my heart’s an empty hole! And my husband, if I’m not careful, quickly becomes my roast beast. Wondering how to stop fighting over the holidays—and why it happens in the first place?".....
https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/holidays/featured-holidays/christmas/stop-fighting-with-your-spouse-over-the-holidays/