"Sometimes we remember things in a different way than our spouse remembers it. We are certain we said one thing and they’re certain we said (or didn’t say) another. Here are three brief reminders from A Lasting Promise for when the filter of memory affects your communication and conflict resolution".....
https://www.scottkedersha.com/how-to-deal-with-one-of-the-biggest-conflict-challenges-all-couples-face/