You Don't Have to Argue Like Your Parents Did

"Because we have imperfect parents, not only do we have to deal with their issues but we also inherit many of them. Not a few families deal with their issues by yelling and screaming at each other, and then they feel better for a while until the next altercation. Or, some shut down and seethe in anger until it works out of their system, but they avoid ever talking about the conflict."......

https://loveandrespect.com/blog/you-are-not-predestined-to-argue-the-same-way-your-parents-did/