It’s common practice for a new website or software
to go public in what is referred to as a “beta” version.
When Microsoft, for example, launches a new system
upgrade it will come out in beta before the “official” or final
version is released.
The idea of a beta site is it's still in test mode.
In other words, it is available for the public to
use, but with the understanding that you may find bugs in it. The
site is not making any claims to have everything worked out to
perfection.
If you are a mature person, you don't get angry with
a beta site if some aspect of its functionality is not doing what
you think it should. You give a beta version plenty of grace and
the site is counting on you to give grace.
The same principle holds true in marriage.
Think how much conflict, frustration, and friction
we could avoid in our relationship if we treated each other as
“beta spouses.”
If we could remember that we are all a work in
progress – ourselves as well as our partner – life would be
exponentially easier.
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