We Just Disagree (and that's OK)

"it’s better to disagree on the trivial things than on the big things. Going a step further, it’s more important to be aligned on the bigger mission or purpose than to agree on every idea or method for getting there. Wondering if this is all just semantics? Let’s explore further".....

https://www.prepare-enrich.com/blog/we-just-disagree-and-thats-okay/

Does Your Husband Shut Down When You Ask Questions?

"If you’ve ever seen your man shut down when you think you’re just asking questions or giving helpful advice, here’s some of what might be going on—and some ideas for what to do about it".....

https://shaunti.com/2021/09/does-your-husband-shut-down-when-you-ask-questions-heres-why/

Staying Optimistic During a Difficult Season

"While the circumstances are all unique, the common thread is that when you’re in the thick of it, it feels hard. It’s easy to get discouraged, and you might begin to question how you’re going to make it through. Here are some tips for staying optimistic during a tough season".....

https://www.prepare-enrich.com/blog/staying-optimistic-during-a-tough-season/

3 Kinds of Baggage that Can Crush Your Marriage

"Every marriage has baggage. That’s because each spouse comes into the marriage with a past that impacts the relationship. What’s yours? Here are 3 kinds of baggage that can crush your marriage".....

http://www.markmerrill.com/3-kinds-of-baggage-in-marriage

Two Individuals (Complete in Christ) Making Each Other Better

"Remember: if you’re a believer, your identity ultimately doesn’t come from your current season, role, or from your spouse in any way. Your identity comes from Christ. Don’t lose sight of this. Let’s unpack a bit more what this means".....

https://fiercemarriage.com/complete-in-christ-making-each-other-better

The REAL Reason Money Causes Issues in Marriage

"Here’s the one-sentence summary of the results of thousands of surveys: when we have tension with our spouse around money, it’s not about the money. It’s about how money makes us feel—and makes our spouse feel. It’s about how we process things".....

https://shaunti.com/2021/08/the-real-reason-money-causes-issues-in-marriage/

The Ripple Effect in Your Marriage

"Being a ripple effect also means your choices affect more than just your immediate surroundings. You may not see it now, but your decision to show up and invest in your marriage is one that will speak to the people in your life and shift the world around you".....

https://xomarriage.com/the-ripple-effect-in-your-marriage/?

Why Direct Communication Feels Mean

When you start asking for things directly, it can feel like you’re being really mean. But what if the opposite is true? What if speaking directly is actually a way to be kind?

https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2021/08/why-direct-communication-feels-mean/

6 Elements of Direct Communication

"In direct communication, you manage your emotions as well as possible so that your words are clear and convey the message".....

https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2021/08/what-is-direct-communication/

We All Make this Marriage Mistake

"Mark Twain once wrote that 'comparison is the death of joy,' and I don’t think this is ever more true than in marriage. And if my own experience is any proof, ingesting too much social media when your relationship is already vulnerable can suck the joy out of your marriage faster than you can say #blessed".....

https://verilymag.com/2016/05/comparing-your-marriage-relationships-struggles-military-wife-deployment

Returning to Basic Rhythms of Rest and Relationship

"As my husband and I chat about what’s to come— on our calendar, with our work, for our kids— we keep coming back to this: We need to re-implement some basic rhythms.  And they all center around intentionality and rest".....

https://fiercemarriage.com/returning-to-basic-rhythms-of-rest-relationship

How to Level Up the Communication in Your Marriage

"While we communicate at different levels, it’s most important to communicate from the standpoint of protecting and nurturing one another’s feelings. If you’re ready to level up your communication with your spouse, read on".....

https://www.symbis.com/blog/how-to-level-up-the-communication-in-your-marriage/