Communicating When You and Your Spouse Have Different Styles

"It takes work to develop skills to talk and listen to a spouse who has a different style of communicating than we do. Here are some of those communication “personalities” with tips on how to better communicate with a spouse who has that style".....

http://www.markmerrill.com/how-to-communicate-better-with-your-spouse

6 Conversation Topics to Cover with Your Wife Every Week

"Without doing routine checks on certain subjects the probability of becoming disconnected increases dramatically. The results could be disastrous. If you want to stay connected to your wife, here are 6 conversation topics you need to cover every week".....

https://www.allprodad.com/6-conversation-topics-you-need-to-cover-with-your-wife-every-week/

10 Texts to Send Your Husband in the Next 10 Days

"I recently challenged husbands with 10 texts for husbands to send to their wives in the next 10 days. Today’s challenge is to the ladies.  So here are 10 texts to send your husband in the next 10 days".....

http://www.markmerrill.com/10-texts-to-send-your-husband-in-the-next-10-days

10 Texts to Send Your Wife in the Next 10 Days

"Texting (unless you’re driving, of course) can be a great way to send a much needed note to someone you love".....

http://www.markmerrill.com/10-texts-to-send-your-wife-in-the-next-10-days

What Are Your Conflict Blocks?

"Dealing with conflict in appropriate and positive ways is a learned trait. Typically, we’ll begin learning conflict management at about the same time we learn to talk and walk. You may not want to admit it, but you probably apply some of the same patterns your parents used when they dealt with conflict. It’s natural for you to simply pick them up through years of observation".....

https://homeword.com/jims-blog/what-are-your-conflict-blocks/#.W_M7Y-hKiUk

Your Marriage is Your Most Important Ministry

"While history tells us that it is possible to have an effective ministry without a healthy marriage, it is not what the Lord desires for us. And not what the Lord desires for those who are impacted by our lives. Here are three reasons why your marriage is your most important ministry".....

http://ericgeiger.com/2018/11/your-marriage-is-your-most-important-ministry/

7 Signs You're Having an Emotional Affair

"If you think that you (or your spouse) has let a friendship go to far, here are 7 simple ways  to tell if you’re having some level of an emotional affair. If you can see yourself in any of these, take immediate action to create healthy boundaries and restore healing and trust in your marriage".....

https://homeword.com/jims-blog/7-signs-youre-having-an-emotional-affair/#.W-L74JNKiUk

5 Things I've Learned about Communicating with My Wife

"after 25 years with my awesome bride, I have learned a thing or two about how best to communicate with her.  And while I still haven’t mastered all of these things, I’d like to share with you what I’m working to be better at".....

http://www.markmerrill.com/5-things-ive-learned-about-communicating-with-my-wife/

Marriage Isn't About Your Happiness

"No wonder we often choose divorce over commitment…because most of the time, we’re choosing 'personal happiness' over real commitment—over real love".....

https://churchleaders.com/outreach-missions/outreach-missions-articles/325902-marriage-isnt-about-your-happiness-debra-fileta.html

You Can't Have a Healthy Marriage with a Sick Soul

"The problem of marriage is the problem of unformed or ill souls relating through unhealthy responses. It’s not primarily about communication, finances, conflict resolution or in-laws. It’s about our sick souls".....

https://churchleaders.com/outreach-missions/outreach-missions-articles/328634-you-cant-have-a-healthy-marriage-with-a-sick-soul-gary-thomas.html

Conflict is a Normal and Natural Part of Your "Happily Ever After"

"In fact, not only is conflict in marriage inevitable, but it’s also perfectly normal. It’s a part of life. Why do you think wedding vows include phrases like 'for better for worse,' 'for richer for poorer,' 'in sickness and health,' and 'through thick and thin?'”.....

https://www.gottman.com/blog/conflict-normal-natural-part-happily-ever/