Responsive vs. Reactive

"How you and your spouse interact with one another largely determines the health of your marriage. Whether you’re resolving conflict or simply engaging in regular communication, it’s so important for the two of you to pay close attention to how you affect each other. Knowing your effect on your spouse starts with being self-aware".....

https://www.symbis.com/blog/responsive-vs-reactive-whats-the-difference-and-why-does-it-matter-in-marriage/

It's Time for an Attitude Check!

The same is true for our attitudes in marriage (and other relationships). A negative attitude, for example, impacts our ability to practice happiness. Can we build joyful marriages if we don’t make happiness a habit? Absolutely not. Think it’s time for an attitude check-up? We do. That’s because there’s never a bad time to check in with your outlook

https://www.symbis.com/blog/why-its-time-for-an-attitude-check-up/

Attitude Check--Do you have a heart problem?

"Four suggestions on how to overcome the sin of grumbling and complaining".....

https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/faith/essentials-faith/growing-in-your-faith/attitude-check-do-you-have-a-heart-problem/