Wednesday, August 30, 2017

Bad News: You Can't Change Your Spouse


"Have you ever played the If Only game? Here’s how it goes:
  • “If only my spouse were more outgoing …”
  • “If only she would stop spending money …”
  • “If only my husband was more romantic …”
You get the idea. “If only” projects your wish list upon your spouse. Most married couples have played this dreadful game, including us, but it never nets any relational wins. It’s just a bad fantasy role-play that doesn’t inspire a healthy marriage".....

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