"The simple reality is that the first rush of 'love' simply can’t last because it includes a temporary flood of chemicals that is a form of actual intoxication. The second wave of love that follows is richer and deeper. But what do you do when the tide seems to go out, leaving you stranded on the dry sands of disappointment? Here are five steps to help you find hope for the days ahead when disappointment drowns you and the dream seems to die".....
http://www.markmerrill.com/dealing-with-disappointment-in-marriage
"In this particular instance, no physical/sexual lines were crossed before the emotional affair came to light, but even still, great damage had already been done to the marriage. Like so many couples, they have found themselves in a place they never expected to be and now they’re starting the process of rebuilding trust and trying to restore their relationship".....
https://homeword.com/jims-blog/7-habits-that-can-lead-to-adultery/#.WwWFTUgvyUk