I Feel Dismissed in My Marriage

Sometimes, married couples become so busy that one or both spouses may start to feel dismissed, unheard, or invisible. This can happen for many reasons. Most often, we become so busy with our lives and routines that we simply forget to slow down.

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Marriage is More Than Checking a Box on Your To-Do List

We’re around each other plenty more hours but together is a different story. Being in the same house does not necessarily constitute together. Neither does sitting next to each other watching a movie. Driving in the car while I answer email on my phone? Again, not together. The key word here is together, which isn’t just proximity; it’s presence and focus.

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How to Give Your Marriage a Fresh Start in the New Year

 


"You can commit to renewing your love any time of year. But, the New Year is a great time to reflect on the recent past and set new priorities and goals for the future. If you want a fresh start in your marriage, this is the perfect time to set yourselves up for success".....

https://www.symbis.com/blog/how-to-give-your-marriage-a-fresh-start-in-the-new-year/

When Conversation Gets Stuck: 25 Questions To Ask Your Spouse

"Instead of opening the doors to communication, a lack of time together actually slams them closed and locks ‘em on the way out. Why? Because when you no longer feel connected, you aren’t able to enjoy that level of trust and intimacy to get you past surface-level convos with your spouse".....

https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/marriage/staying-married/communication/when-conversation-gets-stuck-25-questions-to-ask-your-spouse/

We’re in a Season Of Grief...How Do I Stay Close To My Spouse?

"Navigating a season of grief together is one of the most challenging things you’ll do as a couple. These seasons will come and go throughout your lifetime, and it’s important to decide how you want to handle them as a team. While things in life rarely play out the way we think they should, having a plan for sticking together during difficult times could help you to stay close".....

https://www.symbis.com/blog/were-in-a-season-of-grief-how-do-i-stay-close-to-my-spouse/

The Positive Perspective

"You can keep an eye on your capacity for the Positive Perspective by considering the notion of your Emotional Bank Account. Couples who are in stable, happy relationships have a ratio of positive to negative interactions of 5:1".....

https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-positive-perspective/

Do you need to let go of control in your marriage?

"The truth is, I know my husband really does love me. There’s a good chance yours loves you, as well. When we choose control in marriage, we communicate disrespect and push our husbands away".....

https://shaunti.com/2022/11/do-you-need-to-let-go-of-control-in-your-marriage/