"Proverbs 18 is a very interesting passage of Scripture. Verse 21 says, 'Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.' Then, the verse right after that reads, 'He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord.' In other words, a verse about the power of our speech is followed immediately by a verse about marriage. The way we speak to each other is crucial to the health of our marriages".....
https://marriagetoday.com/marriagehelp/good-words-bring-good-fruit-laws-sowing-reaping?sfns=mo
"Covenants are unconditional, based on love; contracts are based on certain conditions being met. Covenants are sacrificial towards someone, while contracts are reciprocal arrangements—'if you do this, then, and only then, will I do that.' Covenants are based on mutual trust, while contracts assume mutual distrust. A covenant of marriage is for life, but a contract is for here and now".....
http://www.markmerrill.com/7-signs-you-may-be-treating-your-marriage-like-a-contract/
"The Bible has changed my life and my marriage. Seriously. Depending on where you are on your faith journey, you may look at the Bible (as I do) as a love letter from God filled with inspiration and instruction for life OR perhaps you just see it as an antiquated, outdated relic. Regardless of your current faith (or lack of faith), I’d encourage you to read the ten verses below, because they’ve had a tremendous impact on my life and I believe they could provide some encouragement to you as well".....
https://marriagetoday.com/marriagehelp/ten-bible-verses-changed-marriage/
"In the alcohol-and-drug-recovery world, the acronym H.A.L.T. helps keep addicts from relapsing by reminding them not to get too Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired. These same words are important in keeping a marriage together".....
https://homeword.com/jims-blog/h-a-l-t/#.XZOj30ZKiUk