The Seed of Divorce

"In every marriage is an issue, a belief, a habit, a heart idolatry—indeed, many of them—that can lead easily and naturally to the complete destruction of the union"....

http://www.challies.com/christian-living/the-seed-of-divorce

Divorce-Proof Your Marriage Before You Get Engaged

"Nobody enters marriage expecting it to end in divorce. Yet, if statistics hold true, this is what happens to about half of all couples in their first marriage. However, there are a few steps you can take that will help you divorce-proof your marriage, even prior to getting engaged.".....

http://www.joshuastraub.com/2016/09/28/4-steps-divorce-proof-marriage-even-get-engaged/

Your marriage needs a "kid-free" adventure

"If you and your spouse have children, you know that parenthood is an all-consuming role–especially when the kids are young. Daily routines trump adventure most days, and you find yourself longing for a little time alone together. You might feel a little guilty at the thought of taking a kid-free adventure together, but trust us–it’s healthy for your marriage, for the two of you as individuals, and for your kids, too!"....

http://www.symbisassessment.com/blog/kid-free-adventure-together/?mc_cid=6fd5662448&mc_eid=82de7e3bbf

Marriage on the Edge of Eternity

"Eternity changes how we enjoy marriage and everything else in this life. Eternity changes how we love. It would be unloving to get my wife and kids so focused on this life that they are unprepared for the next.".....

http://www.desiringgod.org/articles/marriage-on-the-edge-of-eternity

Me, My Anger & My Marriage

“Over the past few years, it seems like your default response to things, (situations, relationships, etc.) that you don’t like or feel uncomfortable with, is anger. You know there are other ways you can respond?”....

http://fiercemarriage.com/me-my-anger-my-marriage

6 Marks of a Healthy Sexuality

"It’s not inappropriate to ask what is most pleasurable or most exciting for married couples, but meaningful lovemaking is so much more than creating greater sexual arousal and climaxes. That’s why it’s not a bad idea to also ask “What are the markers of a wholesome sexual experience that is accomplishing God’s relational intent?”.....

http://www.garythomas.com/6-marks-of-healthy-sexuality/

Our Friends...are they hurting or helping our marriage?

"...even though you can have great friendships going on like King David and Jonathan had (as shown in the Bible), sometimes the ongoing relationship needs to be ended if they become toxic —especially if they become toxic to your marriage. Some friends just aren’t good for the health of your marriage, or your very life".....

http://marriagemissions.com/are-friends-helping-or-hurting-marriage-message-323/

9 Forms of Infidelity

"Infidelity destroys marriages. I see it everyday. Typically, when we’re talking about “infidelity“, we’re referring only to a sexual affair. While sexual affairs might be the most destructive form of infidelity, there are many other ways people can be unfaithful in marriage. Smaller acts of “infidelity” often lead to a sexual affair. We need to safeguard our marriages from infidelity in ALL its forms"....

http://strongermarriages.com/the-9-forms-of-infidelity/

When saying "I Love You" is not enough

http://www.boundariesbooks.com/boundaries-in-marriage/i-love-you-is-not-enough/

I Want, I Want, I Want!

These two words seem harmless at first, but if left unchecked, they can be fundamentally destructive to your relationships"....

http://www.paultripp.com/articles/posts/i-want-i-want-i-want

Great Word for Marriage from an Article about Parenting

Here's a quote from the article (marriage words added):
You see, parenting (MARRIAGE) is all about being God's ambassadors in the lives of our children (SPOUSES). It's about faithfully representing his message, his methods, and his character. It's about working to make the invisible mercy of God visible as we respond with mercy toward our kids (SPOUSES).....

http://www.paultripp.com/ViewMail.aspx?p=DG13Gg1781160DG13Gg2D&mmid=Gh86Dh49318Gh86Dh5F

Has Pride Creeped Into Your Marriage?

"Pride will kill you. Forever. Pride is the sin most likely to keep you from crying out for a Savior. Those who think they are well will not look for a doctor".....

http://www.desiringgod.org/articles/seven-subtle-symptoms-of-pride

What Your Spouse Needs Most

"Your spouse may not realize what he or she needs most, but if you want a sacred marriage, you have to focus on what he or she will profit from the most. Jesus didn’t always give people what they wanted or asked for. He gave them what they needed".....

http://www.garythomas.com/what-your-spouse-needs-most/

Would You Wish Your Marriage on Your Children?

The worry about our kids’ “high needs” nearly came at the neglect of the ever growing “high needs” of our slowly fading marital satisfaction in those tense first few years of parenting. The reality is, our kids were fine. It was our marriage that needed the attention....

http://www.joshuastraub.com/blog/?offset=1452014833940

How to Help Your Spouse When Anxiety Hits

"Anxiety. Most of us have been there: an issue that–to the outside world–seems arguably small balloons into a crushing, suffocating weight. Our hearts race. Our palms sweat. We descend into a spiraling panic, and find that it’s difficult (and even hopeless) to stop the feeling of dread building inside our chests".....

http://www.symbisassessment.com/blog/help-spouse-when-anxiety-hits/?mc_cid=67142ffe07&mc_eid=82de7e3bbf

When Your Spouse Walks Out

"Every day, I hear from a husband or wife whose spouse wants a separation. It’s a heartbreaking scenario when you find yourself fighting for your marriage while your spouse is fighting for a separation or divorce".....

http://sixseeds.patheos.com/davewillis/5-things-to-do-when-your-spouse-walks-out/

The Two Dimensions of Marriage

There are two questions we can ask within marriage that will take us to two entirely different dimensions. We have to choose in which dimension we want to live. The two questions are these: “How can I bless you?” Or: “How can I get my own way?”.....

http://www.garythomas.com/two-dimensions-of-marriage/

Reflections on Hardship in Marriage

http://fiercemarriage.com/reflections-hardship-marriage